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Monday, 8 September 2008
Why People Leave Churches

I was musing this summer...

REASONS PEOPLE LEAVE A CHURCH:
o       I was in the hospital and only the pastor visited me … and that was out of obligation.
o       I was in the hospital and all these people visited me … except the pastor.
o       The church is too lenient.
o       The church is too strict.
o       The church is too small so we need to bring in new people.
o       The church is too big so I don’t know anyone anymore.
o       I didn’t like what someone said to me.
o       No one spoke to me.
o       There’s nothing for my kids.
o       There’s so much emphasis on children & teens that I don’t get fed as an adult.

I'm sure there are plenty other reasons people give for leaving one church and going to another. I have a feeling that many of them are merely products of our self-centered consumer culture. It made me consider what is a vaild reason for moving from one faith communtiy to another. Here's what I thought of: 

  • Death
  • Relocation
  • Serious doctrinal disagreement
  • A specific calling from God to serve somewhere or to some group 

Just my thoughts.

 

 

Posted on 1:02 PM by Pastor Bob
Comments
27 Oct 2008
Send an emailBrandi

I know for a fact that the reason some people leave a church is because of the teachings. I myself left my old church because the pastor was not living what he was teaching. Many of us saw it and we confronted just as it says to do so and nothing was ever done, so we decided to make a stand and leave. The group that left were all leaders, to this day that Pastor still holds a grudge. I can't help but wonder how he can hold it and still teach love and Jesus' ways. You have to be able to forgive and forget and move on. Anyway, just my thoughts on it.



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